Bertoleransi dengan ANAK.

Baca tips menarik dari sini: http://parenthots.com/features/10-tips-for-negotiating-with-your-child.aspx

Betul katanya.. kadang mak ayah kita nak kita buat macam keinginan mereka, tanpa terlebih dahulu tanya pendapat kita. Kita pun terkadang silap menggunakan kosa kata dalam menyampaikan pandangan peribadi kita. Jadi, bawa berbincang itu penting.

Here are 10 pointers to help you negotiate effectively with your child:

1. Listen carefully to what they say: Before you jump in to let your child know what you think, listen carefully to what he is saying. Children are not very experienced in using the appropriate language to express their thoughts and feelings.

At times, they may even confuse us with their explanations. If you are upset by what your child tells you, walk away to calm yourself down before you respond.

When children explain themselves, they are looking for understanding. Once they know that you understand them, they will be more willing to consider other ways more positively.

Cara Menyusun Barangan Supaya Hidup Lebih Teratur.

Clear the clutter

• Store your child's outgrown clothes in large plastic bins and affix labels such as "0 to 3 months", "6 to 9 months", "9 to 12 months", and so on. Once your child has grown out of a size, you can easily store the clothes, loan them to a friend, or take them to a consignment shop. - Baju sendiri yang berlambak dan tak nak pakai tu bolehla di bagi pada orang lain..Kalau jual semula boleh juga kan?..
  
• Turn your hangers backward at the beginning of every season. Anything left hanging on a hanger that's still turned backward at the end of the season hasn't been worn — give it away!- Yang ni macam pernah tengok kat rancangan TV la.. bagus idea ni..
  
• Get rid of one bag of clothes, toys, and books for every bag that comes into the house. It means less stuff to clean up.- Betul tu.. amalkan selalu jadi lagi senang mengemas barang barang kita kan?
  
• Label shelves in the linen closet so family members know where items like beach towels and guest room sheets belong.- Kena start melabel la lepas ni..
  
• Open mail with the trash can nearby so junk mail and catalogs can be thrown out immediately. Selalunye yang banyak katalog2 kan..

Hairan Tengok Surirumah Yang Kata Tak Cukup Masa..

cikgu isza said...

sekadar pandangan..
kadang2 saya hairan tengok surirumah yang kata tak cukup masa katanya nak masak, mengemas dan lain-lain..
bukan nak kondem tapi kenapa yer?

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Komen Yang menarik dari Cikgu Isza... berkenaan entry ni..Aduan Seorang Ibu..

Sekadar pendapat:

Setiap manusia diberi masa yang sama.. 24 jam. Tak kurang dan tak lebih.. Tak sikit,dan tak banyak. Sebenarnya pandangan individu itu sendiri berbeza atau subjektif untuk setiap perkara. Contohnya kesibukan.. Kecantikan dan kekayaan..

Apa yang penting adalah aspek menguruskan sesuatu dengan lebih teratur sahaja.. Berjadual dan sistematik.. Maka setiap kerja pasti dapat dilaksanakan dengan lebih cepat..

Ingatlah 5 perkara sebelum 5 perkara..

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Atau kawan kawan ada pendapat yang lain?..

Tip Buat Kerja Rumah Dengan Cepat 3

. Give your grade-schooler a "homework box" with pencils, an eraser, a stapler, a calculator, and a ruler. Ask her to bring it to the table whenever it's time to do homework.
~sediakan ruang untuk buat kerja rumah, jadi tak la terkejar kejar nak buat baru nak cari.tak semestinya untuk sekolah je, kolej uni and kerja pun boleh amalkan ni